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Post by TheGentleStorm on Jul 19, 2004 14:54:12 GMT -5
Have Relationship problems, and may possibly be seeking some advice or just want to talk about it, post it here.
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Post by UnknownHorde on Jul 19, 2004 15:05:53 GMT -5
I wish I had a relationship to have problems with. That would be lovely.
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Post by TheGentleStorm on Jul 19, 2004 15:19:41 GMT -5
WEll you know my girl don't you blizz. Me and here have been together for 2 in half years, and i just broke up with her. I can't take not ever getting to see her. I see her like twice a month. And when i was alowed to see her she had to be home by 9. And she only ever called me like maybe once a week. But she had to ask her parents if she was alowed to call me...
I think this was all a bit insane for a 19 year old girl.
she just acted like she didnt care anymore. She has yet to call me since we broke up. Yet i love her so much and promised her i would never break her heart.....mine still hurts, my heart is the one broken. I still miss her and still love her. But she has no room in her life with college and work for me. and yet all the hell i been through with her, i still go to her work to see her, all i want to see is her to smile when she see's me like as if she was happy to see me. I want her want me back. She just cant give me what i want. And all i want is for a girl to love me as much as i love her. But she just cant find the time....
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Post by UnknownHorde on Jul 22, 2004 17:55:17 GMT -5
In grade 8, I met Sara. I never got up the courage to ask her out. I wasn't a person to ask out a girl that was already dating someone. Plus I was scared shitless of her b/f. But we were good friends. I moved, and the day I was moving, I told her I liked her, she told me that if she woulda known, that she woulda dropped her b/f for me...
I called everyday at 4:15 exactly for 1 1/2 years, when, she started dating a new guy... Rob, a guy that is basically a clone of me without my humor, and psychotic laugh. She half moved in with him, she spends half her time there, and half her time at parties. They are engaged.
I love her, and she knows it... she at one time loved me, and I believe she still does, but is afraid of admitting it.
Its been a year since I last saw her, I still talk to her on the phone every once in a blue moon when shes home, I think her mom hates me for calling as often as I do... I send letters but they never seem to make it to her hands.
I go back to see her this summer, I'm staying at my buddy Andrew's place.
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Post by TheGentleStorm on Jul 22, 2004 22:43:55 GMT -5
i feel for you blizz....i hate girl problems, it only leads to more drinking and smoking.....
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Post by UnknownHorde on Jul 23, 2004 5:28:37 GMT -5
I hate smoking, so bad for you. Marijuana smoke burns the little hairs off the inside of your lungs that cleans your lungs. While, tobacco smoke covers everything in your lungs. It takes 7 years with the little hairs for 1 ciggerette to be cleaned from your lungs. I'd rather not smoke.
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Post by TheGentleStorm on Jul 25, 2004 20:13:24 GMT -5
eh, thats disturbing, but any ways girls still hurt tho, jeannie has called me once so far since we broke up, but i didnt pick up, i was afraid of us not talking, and just siting on the phone in silence, i hate that.
but just still seems like nothing happend with her, and i'm still hurting. But i dunno man, maybe she had someone else she was seeing when she was with me. Altho i don't think she is like that, but all my friends are like How would you know an different cuz i never get to see her. So i guess in a way they do have a point. But i don't think she would have done that to me.
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Post by UnknownHorde on Jul 26, 2004 18:08:08 GMT -5
Sometimes you never know. You'll always think that they wouldn't do that to you (if you really like them). So, if anyone says differen't its gonna be hard to accept. Which is a pain in the butt if its true.
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Post by TheGentleStorm on Jul 26, 2004 22:02:44 GMT -5
yeah, your right.....i would have to see it to believe it....
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DreamPixie94
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"forget about your worries and your troubles, just leave em all behind"
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Post by DreamPixie94 on Apr 13, 2005 13:59:53 GMT -5
[glow=white,2,300]Well .. this has been the hardest thing i've ever had to endure i think - me and Tom broke up for the second time .. The hardest part about it is that I love him more then anything in this world .. he has been my bestfriend since the day i met him .. and i've known i loved him and wanted to be with him pretty much since the day i met him aswell .. and my heart tells me he loves me too - and he will come back to me .. and things will better then ever .. but its hard to say - because i dont really know what he wants or how he feels .. other then "a break" .. and i am okay with that .. i can give him his time .. and his space to be free for awhile .. but part of me also wants to say .. you shouldnt need a break to see if you love me .. but if thats what it takes to get him back - i will wait .. but I have been saying since we first got together that he loves me just as much as i do - he just wont admit it to himself yet .. because his ex hurt him really bad .. and he is scared to love again .. i just hope im right .. I dont know what i would ever do if I lost the most important person in my life .. i mean we are still friends and everything - but sometimes i wonder if he even wants that .. i dont know what i would do if he got with someone else .. i mean we arent together he can do what he wants .. but it would still cut me so deep .. my mind has just been going crazy .. everyday since we broke up .. i cant sleep - because im always trying to figure something out .. like why i am not good enough .. or what could be so wrong with me that NO guys ever want to stay with me .. i've been hurt so much in my life - and it sucks
Ive loved tom for like 4 years now .. even when i was with other guys during that time because he was with his ex - in my heart i always knew he was the one i loved . and the one i should be with .. and then after years of waiting .. and years of hoping he would someday be mine - he was .. but before i knew it .. it was over
and now once again .. im bruised .. broken .. and alone ..[/glow]
i noticed something in a previous post from him i had to add "And all i want is for a girl to love me as much as i love her" I guess not .. because i love him more then anyone will ever be able to love him .. and i always will love him more then any other girl can .. he IS my heart .. he is my soul .. he is my world .. and it just aint enough?
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